My heart breaks for so many. I read all these posts. The end to a marriage is horrible. Seems as though it impacts so many. How is it that the value of marriage has just left so many? I was told recently that the piece of paper means so little. You know what, its true. When two people love each other. They just would'nt do this to one another. My X just didnt love me. Simply, if he had, he would not have done what he did. His carless attitude represents his lack of love for me. This is painful to find out the person you commited too, held little value to the commitment. I really believe in marriage. I feel like the purity of marriage has been riped away from me. I once thought..... NOTHING would get in the middle of this covent. I am so sorry to see so many hurting. I hope that All who are reading this, see my heart in this matter. I am so sorry your hurting. I believe however, the Good Lord new far better than I . He must have allowed this to happen to me. Believe me I did everything in my power to hold on. The Lord knew I needed to be loved. He loved me so much he allowed my marriage to end. For this I am grateful. This time around I am wiser. When it concerns matters of my heart. I will not give it up as easily. If I am to be married again, it will have to be him all him. I will make sure he loves me. I will NOT be hurt again. BUT I trust God far more than any man so I leave it in HIS hands. Be encouraged. If you are finding it hard to get threw this. You will, It will hurt for a good long time. When the dust settles, you will begin to see why. I am FINALLY able to say. Thank you. I am stronger than I have been ( alittle insecure and un trusting) but I really am getting to know me. This is a welcome success. If you are hurting, you will it is painful. BUT you will be stronger. I give you my word. SO hold on, dont give up, you are more valuable than you know. The Lord loves you and wants the very best for you. He has counted every hair on your head. Today... I am now in a new relationship, everyday is new and I find myself loving again. SLOWLY i am allowing him to love me, I admit ( I am abit insecure) with good reason. I was hurt pretty bad. BUT it part of life right.? Peace be with all .... You will be ok....
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