My husband won't do counseling, I've tried to get him to go but he had a bad experience with his ex-wife. I can handle the divorce if I have to but I can't handle the waiting for him to make a decision about us. "I just don't know" is what he tells me. I told him it's unfair to make me wait and we pretend on the phone that everything is alright. I ask him to talk to me. I'm willing to take my licks about what's hurting him. I'm not perfect and can take steps to improve, but he can't seem to figure out what it is that's made him unhappy. I've given him 2 months to think about things, how much more do I give?
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