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so confused

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After hearing how my wife no longer feels the same way for months she now seems to have decided to act like it never happened. I still feel as though I'm being placated yet I'm holding on for dear life. Despite her attempts it just seems like our relationship is without feelings or emotions. This sounds like it would better written as a journal entry but I figured I'd vent.
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i could have written these same words except it's my husband that is pretending like nothing ever happened...at the very least some aknoweldgemnt would be nice. maybe an apology?
i'm sorry for your pain...i guess there's not much comfort in knowing that you're not the only one, but that many of us are out there too...
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At some point you will need to talk with her--openly about what happened. It sounds like right now, you have an emotional wall up to help you not get hurt again. Communication is the key to the wall
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So true your feelings are felt by many of us. I for one have not spoken to her since August 29,2007. For I can not in many ways. My pain and sorrows she will never know as I wish if she knew. she would feel the pain and emotions that I have kept within myself. I could not imagine how she could do what she has done and live by her actions for the rest of her life in compfort.
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Untill she starts acting like it did happen, how the hell can you move forward with what ever choice that you make.
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Denial is a powerful tool. Sometimes it helps us forgive... OURSELVES! This may be her way of starting over. The lack of feelings and emotions is typical. You have gone through a lot and don't quite trust her. Give youself some time to figure it all out.
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