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So angry

deleted_user
deleted_user
Let me just say, it's V Day tomorrow and my stbx is NOT taking me anywhere.. Can you believe it? I mean I'm fun, exciting, interesting! He's taking the OW woman out.. I said but I'm your wife!... I told him I didn't mind going with them at all. So I began a text spree of places I wanted to eat at, the color flowers I would like etc... AND he didn't care... He said it would be "weird"... Weird? Whatever.. it would be a good time!**Sigh** :)

I hope all of you have a great Happy VDAY! We don't need a love to enjoy the day.... we have each other, our friends and our family to fill that void....

YAY for VDAY!!!
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hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
Hard for me to say Yay for Vday. I watched colleagues and students getting goodies and flowers today. It hurt. :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
It was a joke.... soon.. not really cause I did ask him and texted him all the stuff I was requesting on VDday... it was supposed to be a funny...

I'm glad I'm not going on the funniest person alive show.. I'd fail...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I came home from work and stbx had left a big vase of flowers on the dining room table. It'd actually be nice if I didn't think the NJ whore also got flowers today.
deleted_user
deleted_user
aww.. woobie... at least you got flowers... look at the positive side.. screw the whore in NJ.. she 's not nearly as great as you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
aww.. woobie... at least you got flowers... look at the positive side.. screw the whore in NJ.. she 's not nearly as great as you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks, Kel! You're right. If she's so great, how come she's 38 and can't keep a boyfriend? (Sorry, I was caught up in the moment.)
deleted_user
deleted_user
KellyRestored, I LAUGHED OUT LOUD. You are the funniest person alive right now, so get on that show! I thought this was hysterical, and I love you for it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Screw the jerk. I hope he has the most miserable Valentines day that he has EVER had.


(hugs)
queendy
queendy
I smiled, I like the idea of going out with them because you are still married to him :).
Oh, well, do something nice for yourself. I am going to have a blast with my daughter, she is my true Valentine this year!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks guys! It was so funny... I can't even begin to tell you the facial expression that I got when I asked.

Actually I think it would be fun, I make her feel uncomfy for some reason... I can't imagine why.... :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Fluff your hair a little, Kel. The horns are showing. *eg*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Kelly, I cracked up at this -- really laughed out loud at my desk. I think that's HILARIOUS!! Thank you!!! Just picturing going out with the ex and his OW, omg....
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL....Good one Kelly and you are so right! We don't need a love to enjoy the day.

I received a valentine from my 5 year old with his hand prints on it today. He made it at school.

I am HIS Valentine....AWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

At least I have my kids to share the day with thank goodness. They are all I need anyway.

Who needs a love? Screw it!
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's still hard. I want to be with my wife for Valentine's day but she dosn't seem interested even though she is thinking of coming back to the marriage. What makes it worse is next month would have been our 5 year wedding anniversary. Here I am a man that WANTS to be romantic and take my wife out and she don't seem to care.
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