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Sneak Peek!!!

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My girlfriend and her hubby just sent me video from my "dream"...they drove out to make Sure on this house.

The property has Real Trees!!! And a Church across the Street!!! They fell in Love with the town. I am just dying...OMG!!!

http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/boxer911/?action=view&current=IMGP3333.flv

http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/boxer911/?action=view&current=IMGP3334.flv
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Anyway-I will hopefully be heading out there this next week...I have been watching this house for months. It is the only owner-finance that I have seen that seems do-able.

I should be able to contact the Owner again, tomorrow, and start getting a bit more "solid" with talking.

Please, please, pray and send good wishes. I am operating on shear Nerve right now, and not much else.
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May all your wishes & dreams come true! And soon!
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Thanks Anne-this is where that rubber meets the road. Either someone Believes that I am gonna be able to make the payments...or I am gonna start sinking, rapidly.

She wanted 10% down, I can give her 20%...and still have some reserve.
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That's great!! I'm happy for you.
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I believe, sister, I believe!
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Anne, I get this place, you need to head out there for a vacation.

I already have several other friends planning to do that...I am cracking up...only damned place I can afford to go with my Dogs is trying to become a resort area...it would be Funny, if it were...
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Best of luck always. I am hoping to do the same in a few months.
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http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/boxer911/?action=view&current=IMGP3335.flv

My gf just told me that two of the huge trees are crape myrtles...now I am dying...

This place may be the equivilent of a nunnery...I may be single and sexless the rest of my miserable life-but it will be in a Beautiful Place!!!
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Tami I love it! I am so happy for you. You are going to make it.
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Heartfelt prayers and super good wishes coming your way!!!!
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Tami, just watched the video. It looks perfect for you and I LOVE the trees! Sounds like you're going to have to build a fence. What kind?
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Awesome looking house, Tami!~! I pray that you will be able to get YOUR house!~! We have Crepe Myrtle here in East Texas too. I LOVE them. We have a couple of them in our yard. One is right outside the back door. :)
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I have a good feeling about this one. Put your best foot forward. It's yours!
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Carl, my gf's hubby, can help me get lumber...we get to finally have a Wood Fence!!!!! IF I get this house.

Tomorrow the money Should be in my possession so that I can start getting things moving and know what I need to do...and IF this will Really be Possible...I just keep telling myself that it HAS to be.

It is cheaper than rent.

Community college 6 miles away, or I try to start a business...

Either way-just keep pushing.

Crape Myrtles are my favorite trees. I had three at my old house. I go to a local outdoor mall here to sit under them to feel better.

This just Looks like Home to me.
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where is this place?
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