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This may sound like I am psyco, but its just a small payback and it made me feel wonderful!
My stbx had set a tracer on my emails when we lived together - then when we got in our big arguement he revealed he had been reading them - not that I am ashamed of anything I wrote, but I was venting to a close friend, my Dad was dieing, my daughter was sick and the docs couldn't find out why and my stbx was sick - in my email I said "sick husband, sick child thats my life" well I'm not sure how many of ya'll are reading this and that sounds bad, it really really did not mean anything, I WAS VENTING TO A FRIEND! He had no business reading it, but he literally made it sound like I had told everyone in the world I hated my family - and him and at that point I didn't...I took care of them - anyway today I called him because he wanted our, rather my dog to come visit him, he said "My Mom is sick, my son is sick...blah blah blah" I just so wanted to say...HMMMMM now you are a bad person you for saying that.
That probably doesn't make sense to anyone else, but I feel better - in a sad, sick way. I don't want his Mom to be sick or our son!
OK maybe I shouldn't post this -
My stbx had set a tracer on my emails when we lived together - then when we got in our big arguement he revealed he had been reading them - not that I am ashamed of anything I wrote, but I was venting to a close friend, my Dad was dieing, my daughter was sick and the docs couldn't find out why and my stbx was sick - in my email I said "sick husband, sick child thats my life" well I'm not sure how many of ya'll are reading this and that sounds bad, it really really did not mean anything, I WAS VENTING TO A FRIEND! He had no business reading it, but he literally made it sound like I had told everyone in the world I hated my family - and him and at that point I didn't...I took care of them - anyway today I called him because he wanted our, rather my dog to come visit him, he said "My Mom is sick, my son is sick...blah blah blah" I just so wanted to say...HMMMMM now you are a bad person you for saying that.
That probably doesn't make sense to anyone else, but I feel better - in a sad, sick way. I don't want his Mom to be sick or our son!
OK maybe I shouldn't post this -
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Hey, I'm for whatever makes you feel better! It's harmless.
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Thank you
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well, I know this may sound bad, but I know other people have said it too. I don't wish sickness, death ect. on people, but, "WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND." Maybe he should have asked you what you meant by it before ASSUMING the worst. I once had an employer tell me to NEVER "assume" anything. He said when you do that, it makes an A$$ out of YOU & ME.... ;)
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
