Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The holidays have hit me so hard this year. I've been through other holiday seasons since the separation but this one is so tough. Maybe it's because the divorce will soon be final. Maybe it's because my STBX has been making noise about contesting the 50/50 custody agreement. Maybe it's because my GF (met her 2 years after separation), who doesn't have kids, is getting really tired of me putting priority on my kids. Maybe it's all of the above, and then some.
None of the usual remedies (music, exercise, friends, ...) seem to work. Some days, like today, I feel like getting in a car and driving far, far away.
I don't even know what advice to ask for anymore, so instead, I will pray for all of you who are suffering here. God bless you all. I hope you all have futures filled with caring, joy, and laughter. There's part of me that still knows that I will.
None of the usual remedies (music, exercise, friends, ...) seem to work. Some days, like today, I feel like getting in a car and driving far, far away.
I don't even know what advice to ask for anymore, so instead, I will pray for all of you who are suffering here. God bless you all. I hope you all have futures filled with caring, joy, and laughter. There's part of me that still knows that I will.
Thriver
You will. This is a worst and the best time of the year. It's only a few weeks. Then the new year will begin and your new life will begin.
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i think it's sad when a gf/bf gets upset over the partners children, i know it must be very difficult, but, the kids have to come first, they didn't ask for this divorce mess. they are innocent bystanders in this whole thing. when you have children you sacrifice, and when your with someone who has children they come as a package deal. i wish all of you good luck, perhaps this will be behind you soon and things will get better for all of you.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
