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SINGLE LADIES ANTHEM :) !!

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NATASHA BEDINGFIELD.. 'SINGLE'

Ah yeah that's right
All you single people out there
This is for you

I'm not waitin' around for a man to save me
(Cos I'm happy where I am)
Don't depend on a guy to validate me
(No no)
I don't need to be anyone's baby
(Is that so hard to understand?)
No I don't need another half to make me whole

Make your move if you want doesn't mean I will or won't
I'm free to make my mind up you either got it or you don't

[Chorus:]
This is my current single status
My declaration of independence
There's no way I'm tradin' places
Right now a star's in the ascendant

I'm single
(Right now)
That's how I wanna be
I'm single
(Right now)
That's how I wanna be

Ah yeah Uh Huh that's right

Don't need to be on somebody's arm to look good
(I like who I am)
I'm not saying I don't wanna fall in love 'cos I would
I'm not gonna get hooked up just 'cos you say I should
(Can't romance on demand)
I'm gonna wait so I'm sorry if you misunderstood

[Chorus]

Everything in it's right time everything in it's right place
I know I'll settle down one day
But 'til then I like it this way it's my way
Eh I like it this way

Make your move if you want doesn't mean I will or won't
I'm free to make my mind up you either got it or you don't
'Til then I'm single

This is my current single status
My declaration of independence
There's no way I'm tradin' places
Right now a star's in the ascendant

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxTgK29qRCo
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thought this was empowering.. but maybe ppl just don't agree??
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bumpy
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I like it.
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me too
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Ok, ur gonna get sick of me, but here's one for the gals who got cheated on... sure u've heard the carrie underwood song....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vSG4Cml7HXs
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I LIKE IT!

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle....
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hehe depends what for tho.. ;)
LarryLDN
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this is what helped me get through it all last summer

Unwritten
------Natasha Bedingfield

I am unwritten,
Can't read my mind
I'm undefined
I'm just beginning
the pen is in my hand
ending unplanned

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words
That you could not find
Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions


Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten , yeah

Oh, oh

I break tradition
Sometimes my tries
Are outside the lines, oh yeah
We've been conditioned
To not make mistakes
But I can't live that way oh, oh

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words
That you could not find
Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words
That you could not find
Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
drench yourself in words unspoken
Live you life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten
The rest is still unwritten
(YEAH! YEAH! YEAH!)


The rest is still unwritten


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86r2RW31u7Y
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Unfortunately it's songs like this and "To the Left", etc that gives selfish women/ wives/ mothers the crazy notion to divide and destroy their families for thec ske of empowerment, independence and the ability to screw around.
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that is a good one! i've heard it a million times, but yet when i read the last line i got chills! ohh :( i'm still in a bad spot,, havent gone thru any of the process yet,,, besides deciding we want to split
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I can understand what lies behind the words, Just change the gender and that would have been my song. Except I read somewhere recently that only I control my happiness so if I expect someone else to make me happy then I should not be surprised if I'm unhappy. So although my STBX has brought great pain in to my life I am visualizing a truly wonderful woman with whom I can experience great joy with both of us understanding what we share, and until the trust builds, what we do not. Think of something beautiful.
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uhhhh ok Rob, i see ur angered.. let me explain,, this is more saying that I , as a woman, could be a man.. will refuse to feel like i need an asshole husband just to get by,
saying that i finally , for once in my life, feel like i can do this.. be on my own with my children, not depend on him... does that make any sense???
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Natasha Bedingfield usually has such inspirational songs...
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yeah, u kinda have to listen to it to really get the feel of it... its not a bashing song,, at all, it's an independence song :)
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yeah, u kinda have to listen to it to really get the feel of it... its not a bashing song,, at all, it's an independence song :)
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