I've been single for over four months now, and I'm feeling more stable than ever in my single life. The problem is that lately I've been thinking non-stop about someone that I dated for 8 months a few years ago. I broke up with him because my ex was in my life, and I was attached to him. But now that the ex is history (he was so wrong for me), I find myself remembering everything about the other guy that was so right for me. I honestly think that the attachment to my ex was the only thing that kept me from really falling for this guy. Some days I think that if I hadn't ended it, we might be engaged by now. Anyway, as of wintertime, he was happily dating someone. He knows that I felt I made a mistake in dumping him, and I don't want to contact him just to ask if he's still in that relationship. If we were to have lunch, he'd know exactly why I'd called. So what do I do? We don't have any mutual friends or acquaintances I can ask. Since he never really ran after me to get me back, does that mean he never really wanted to be with me anyway? Is my dream of reconnection never to be? Any thoughts?
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