Ok guys! I have not been on here in a while and I feel like I need to get some input on what has been happening. I was in a relationship for over 3 years which ended last November. He contacted me for the first time in January and said things to me (which were good) that he never said before. He told me that he knows that I am perfect for him. We started talking but things were not progressing like I wanted them to so I walked away from him and told him that if he ever changed his mind he knew how to find me. He contacted me about a week later when he knew that I was going out of town. I contacted him when I returned to let him know that I was home safe and sound. We talked more. Then about a month later, things changed. We were not talking and I told him that I knew I lost him. I sent him an email to return some things that were at his house and it took him 3 weeks to do it. In the email I said that he would never hear from me again since I felt like that is what he wanted. As of today, he has not heard from me but he is showing up at places he knows that I will be at. He is emailing my best friend asking when her son plays ball so he can go watch him play. I still feel deep in my gut that we belong together but I think I am trying to talk myself into the fact that we are over. My friends mom was at the ball game and met him and she asked a couple of questions. His response was that we dated, we were not anymore and that we did not have that much in common. He also stated that he hoped that I would meet someone and move on. That is what I am trying to do but when he shows up all the time all he is doing is bringing everything to the surface. I don't let him see it, but my point is if you don't want to have something to do with someone why would you show up where you know they will probably be or why would you email her best friend. Any insight will be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!
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