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Well the ex just called me; he's back in town from his father's funeral....and now I can sign the quick claim deed to the house! I am sad. As of tomorrow I will no longer have that as my house...I can no longer claim it as my home or anything like that.
I used my interheritence to buy the home! I used it all; it makes me so angry that a man who cheated on me is now going to OWN my home; and he lives there with his gf.
It just feels weird that I lose it now.....it didn't hit me until now.....
It's gone and it's done. It just plain sucks sh**!
I grieve some more.....
And I now vow: and promise myself that NO MAN or friend, or family will get in my way again. I will protect MY money; and myself from today on out.....I think I have shut down. I heard about this phase after a divorce. I am now guarded............
This sucks.
I used my interheritence to buy the home! I used it all; it makes me so angry that a man who cheated on me is now going to OWN my home; and he lives there with his gf.
It just feels weird that I lose it now.....it didn't hit me until now.....
It's gone and it's done. It just plain sucks sh**!
I grieve some more.....
And I now vow: and promise myself that NO MAN or friend, or family will get in my way again. I will protect MY money; and myself from today on out.....I think I have shut down. I heard about this phase after a divorce. I am now guarded............
This sucks.
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Hey Sarge--you don't know how many times I've told people, "Never again without a pre-nup."
Words to live by.
But like you, my thing is, soon I will be in my own place. No roomies, no bfs, no husband. Its all mine. And it cant be taken away except by my own mistakes. That is what I am telling my daughter. Its ours. No man will ever have that kind of power of me again. Guard up- yep. Distrust? tons.
Wish I could send you the biggest HUG!! Wish I knew words of comfort to send you. But all I can say is yep, you have perfect right to feel that way you do, although wish you didnt have to feel it. (((((HUGS))))))
I feel your pain...I'm so sorry.
I hope you got some equity out of it.
I am stupid, I know. I am guarded too.
So I have lost trust with everyone; and the legal system.