
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
If she is going to start moving stuff out today then they need to know as soon as possible. What are they going to think? It's never going to be easier if you wait. So just tell them.
And for the record stbx and I faked it at a family gathering Oct 06 and my mom knew but did not say anything until I brought it up. So you would not be fooling anybody.
here might be one of the worst times: my stbx lost his temper about something, turned around in the car and told our 2.5 year old--Daddy's moving out. . . she didn't handle it very well.
Kids aren't stupid,they know when something is up.What is going to be important is being truthful with them,both of you.
When explaining things to the kids do not blame each other,you don't want the kids to feel like they have to choose sides.
Some marriages don't work out because people grow in separate directions and that makes it hard to be partners.But if you both agree that the kids emotional well being comes first,(which it seems as you are doing),than keep that in mind.
Holidays can be stressful enough,adding a dog and pony act can make it harder.
You can help each other move on by assisting one and other but still have the end goal of ending your marriage.
All the best,this is never an easy time for anyone.