
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My husband and I have been separated for 3 months now. He's finally decided he really does want a divorce. I know that he spent the weekend with his mom - it has never been said, but just by looking at his dads financial situation, I think she took him in their divorce. Now he wants to talk- about the house, which will be going into forclosure soon, custody of our son, child support, ect. I'm not sure if his mom is trying to guide him so that I get nothing, or not. I don't want to break him, but my son is #1 and I will NOT lose him--. So- should I talk to him about this stuff, or wait to hire a layer to deal with it so I won't get screwed? I want to stay pleasant because of our son. Any advice???
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Up here in Canada you can get free half hour consults for info and to see if you like the lawyer.....not sure if its that way where you live
Try calling a few and find out
I'm sure his mom will advise him on things regarding the divorce. I would not confide anything to her. Blood IS thicker than water.
If you both are able to settle things amicably - that will be best for everyone and will save you much heartache and $$$.
Every state has divorce law handbooks available to advise you of your rights. I purchased a Florida one at Barnes and Noble for under $10. My recent divorce was completely amicable (1 child involved) and cost about $400. EX knew I was fully aware of divorce law and didn't bother to fight for things he knew he would never get.
Most attorneys will give a free consult - but be very careful who you retain. Many of them look for ways to prolong the process in order to bill as many hours as possible.
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I was told by my attorney not to speak to him about any of it. go attorney to attorney. thats my advice. i had filed in june for seperation In july , he wanted to rec. he then decided around september he did want a div. he told me he had to try to rec cause he saw all money gong to the lawyers and had to stop it. it wasnt sincere reconcilition. my point is, he could be trying to snow you. be CAREFUL
Good luck to you...
Why is it that criminals know they shouldn't say a word and that they need to "Lawyer up", while honest people try to "talk it out" and end up getting screwed.
Lawyer up honey..the sooner the better!