So, I frequent a locally owned coffeeshop once or twice a week that's two blocks from work; on friday nights it hosts an open mic night. I work, so I can't go, but I usually drop in to buy a chai or smoothie. A couple of times I didn't get over there until a little later than usual and as I'm walking from coffeeshop back to work, my ex, who goes to open mic to perform, drives past me to the parking lot. This in itself is no big deal to me, but today he shot a look of, well, I guess distaste, as he passed. I smiled at him and waved anyway, but after I got to thinking ... should I avoid going there so that it's "his place"? We both started going separately after our split ... me because of its location and food/drink, him for the open mic night. He hasn't said anything to me (I doubt he would, even) ... am I overanalyzing it?
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