I have been seperated from my stbx for 5 months now ... about a week after we split I meet a man who had recently seperated from his wife , both were long marriages ) ... we started a friendship to be there for support for each other ... we just had coffee and talks but , a few weeks ago we started doing a bit of kissing , go out for drinks and even slept in the same bed one night after having to much to drink but , nothing happened ... we send emails back and forth to each other and sometimes they can get pretty hot ... a few nights ago he stopped for coffee at my place and we were all over each other but , he had to leave to go to work , if he didnt have to go to work he would have ended up staying the night ... but the thing is , we are always completely honest with one another and he has told me there is a chance he could go back to his wife ... I am not in love him , but there is some chemistry there from both of us ... to be honest I could fall for this guy hard and I beleive the next time I see him which will be today or tommorow something will definately happen ... the last thing I need is any kind of emotional envolvement with someone but I am so attracted to him and he is attracted to me ... so would like to ask anyone who has had this experience ... should I run ?
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