I am separated and filed for divorce from my husband. I moved out of state. He wants me to stop the divorce. I talked with my lawyers office and they said that we could put it on hold. The Judge would have it on his desk for up to 6 months. When he gives it to my lawyer I have 30 days to decide to go thru with it or cancel the divorce. I have Not made the decision yet. I told my husband he has to do x y and z . Including getting therapy. I do not know if i should give him the benefit of doubt. I had my first therapy appt yesterday. Should I give him the chance to 1:GET Help 2:Get his life in order. 3: Get a job. ??????? For me I know I need MORE therapy separated or divorce and I will continue.... ANY ADVICE out there???????
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