I feel kind of foolish posting this after reading some other messages. I have been married for about As far as I know my husband does not cheat and he is not abbusive. He is however the silent type and just goes with the flow. He never initiates an outing and always talks about work and works all the time. He only helps with the kids when I am at my wits ends. It is so peaceful when he is not at home and I know I have to do everything. I feel like we are leading separate lives and just stay married because it is convenient. We have sex once or twice a month but that is usually what it is, just sex. I just don't know what to do I don't want to rip my kids lives apart but I don't want to be unhappy because I can't be a good Mom....I have been feeling this way for quite a while... I think my husbands only concern is that I will take him for half of what we have and not the actual divorce...
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