
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
hmm. I think that it all depends on how much you trust your spouse, if you put your name on a new house though it could be part of the divorce, and if she uses it as you "cheating" on her then she could get more alimony for that. There really is alot to think about in this respect. Good luck.
I personally would hold off until the divorce is final. just my two cents there. or dollar fifty, i kind of wrote alot.
Worrying about whether to move in with your MARRIED LOVER or not really Isn't a Big Thing in this whole picture...you will be looking at other issues-Child Support, Alimony, Distribution of Assets...IF you can still get it up after your Wife gets through with your ass-you will be doing well...
Many have been in THIS situation before! That's why this community is populated by so many VICTIMS of infidelity. Do you have the slightest clue what your actions and planned actions will do to your wife? Do you even care?
Get your stuff over with first.
Then if she still wants too then why not!
How can you live with yourself. You are one selfish bastard. Dating? Did you mean fing each other and then your spouses? I have zero respect for people of your nature. Why don''t you put yourself in your wife's shoes you know the one that has been doing your dirty laundry, cleaning your house, taking care of your kids, picking up after your stupid ass. Do you really think your whore will do all this for you when you move in with her? She may for a little while but she is already wanting to leave her spouse. I think you, and your whore and all the other people like you should all rot in hell. I hope your wife takes you for everything she can. You and your whore will fail as soon as it comes out.
If your wife doensn't know about this then please do the right thing and tell her.
Then..do whatever you want. Sounds like you will anyway.
I hope that your wife gets a good attorney that makes sure that you have to pay for half of the kids medical expences..including counseling. They will likely be needing that.
If you still need an ansewer to your question then..yes..many of us have been in this situation before. The other side of this situation. It's not a good place to be.