My stbx is still living here. He wants the divorce not me. We have been married for 23 years. Says he HAD a cyber affair, but no longer communicating with her. However, he wants to live alone and 'find' himself. Says we are not compatable anymore. But does not have money for another place until we sell the house. In fact.... he is still sleeping with me... but no sex or hugging or kissing. Only a kiss good bye in the morning and he is acting so nice and helpful... probably afraid of loosing all his money! I know I should at least make him move to the other bedroom. Should I make him move out?
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