We have a beautiful house about 700,000.00 sitting empty 2 hours from here. I think it is the most beautiful house I will ever live in in the most beutiful neighborhood. We can't sell it, 2 years ago my wife wanted to add on to it and we doubled the size but tripled the price. She moved to Dallas and I rented her a house down her in a beautiful neighborhood, for about 4000.oo a month while I put her through school. She is done with school now but still hasn't gotten a job. She is having to take boards to become a facial person in a spa. We have 2 kids and they are use to a nice lifestyle with maids and anything they want. Now they are faced with having to move to a much smaller house in a not as great of a neigborhood. I live in a one bedroom apartment about 3 miles away from them. I moved down her to try and get our marriage back together but she didn't want that because she is having too much fun. Now we are seeing lawyers and I don't know what to do next. One day I am so mad at her for what she has done or should I say what we have done. And the next day I am crying like crazy ready to do what ever she says. Some days I just pray she calls me or text messages me. It just makes me mad that she would never go to counseling with me, finally after 7 months we went to counseling but she told the counselor it was for divorce counseling. My kids are 9 and 14 years old. I don't have a problem with helping her buy the house that I am renting for her but it has all of our beautiful furniture in it from our old house. I have all the stuff she didn't want. I know she has had other men staying there, I just won't be able to take someone else moving into the house that I helped her buy and that I have been renting for her for the past 10 months with all of our beautiful furniture in it. I don't know what to do. I still love my wife and certainly love my two kids. What a rollercoaster. Today she out of the blue invited me over for burgers on the grill, first time I have been invited over there in months.
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