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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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We have been living separately since 26 Nov'08, having counselling seperately and recently together (hasn't gone well).
He earns almost 3 times what I earn and yet has only been paying for 1/2 rent and utilities (no money for our 2 year old daughter or other housekeeping) since we have been together (4 years). He has spent freely throughout the last year even though I have been raising the matter with him constantly (part of why we are living separately).
In counselling he acknowledged that he has excluded me from the financial decisions but wants to change all that.
He asked for money from, feels that he has helped me out in the past, I should help him out. His last email said he is humuliated that he has to ask, that I won't help, wants me to '**** off, never come back'.
I feel strongly about maintaining my wedding vows, love a big part of who he is, am very confused.....
I have given him some money today, have not heard from him, don't know what to do.
He earns almost 3 times what I earn and yet has only been paying for 1/2 rent and utilities (no money for our 2 year old daughter or other housekeeping) since we have been together (4 years). He has spent freely throughout the last year even though I have been raising the matter with him constantly (part of why we are living separately).
In counselling he acknowledged that he has excluded me from the financial decisions but wants to change all that.
He asked for money from, feels that he has helped me out in the past, I should help him out. His last email said he is humuliated that he has to ask, that I won't help, wants me to '**** off, never come back'.
I feel strongly about maintaining my wedding vows, love a big part of who he is, am very confused.....
I have given him some money today, have not heard from him, don't know what to do.
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Don't give him a penny.
No, not another cent and talk to a lawyer about getting child support from, him. Soon.
Don't give him another nickel.
Hey a hundred dollars is enough "extra" money to keep me happy for a month or two, and was enough to keep him happy for a night. Believe me, divorce has been kind to me financially. I no longer feel guilty if I go out to eat once a month, or spend a little extra on the kids.