
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Has he totally totally broken off all relationships with this woman and will never see her again?
Can you resume your married life ?- it will be different, because he has made love to someone else.
Can you live in that knowledge?
What do you want to do with YOUR life?
Write down a short list of attributes a "dream" fellow would have that you would like to accept into your life.
(No-one will totally fulfil this, but they may get somewhere near - more to the point you focus on what you will or won't tolerate).
Imagine the scenario - he goes off to work each day, some evenings away? How will you feel, what will you think?
No one can answer these quesitons but yourself.
I can only speak to me - I would not go back, I would not be able to bear it. But I am not you. And I have no toleration level of infidelity.
I am dumbfounded at this remark.