I've been separated 16 months and have met a wonderful guy in the midst of the most awful year of my life. my stbx just changed. he was always kinda possessive but then he stopped coming to bed, stopped working, slept alot and I eventually cheated(feel remorseful too!) wish I hadn't. He doesn't know. I moved out bc before I cheated I told him daily what was wrong with us or what I needed and he didn't respond to me at all. a month later his mom died(whom had lived with us for 3 years) I went back to comfort him for a week and left again. I am such a bitch. He drank a lot more later on but was still somewhat gentle and loving. I just feel like I stepped out on him and totally dissed my vows with him. now I am with a great guy who is closer to my age, loves my kids, outgoing(unlike ex) but havne't been able to give him my all! now divorce is pending and I'm having second thoughts HELP!!!
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