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Ok, most of you know my situation, Ive been seperated for a month, and hubby is confused and doesnt know if he wants a divorce. I went to the library about a week ago and checked out the book Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner-Davis. I can totally relate to the info in there, and think it could really help. The thing is, I would really like my hubby to read it. He's 100 miles away, living with his mom. I want to tell him about the book, and ask if he would go to the library and see if he can get that book there....should ask him to check it out?
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Share it with him...if he refuses, you keep in reading it. Do the 180s and work on yourself.
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I suggest you tell him about this great book you have been reading but leave it at that. Don't tell him he should read it, let him connect the dots. Good luck.
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Good Advise snglefather. I know it is hard to face rejection if he says no but he could say yes. I would just make sure you do it in love and don't make it about how he needs to change. And really you should take this time to find yourself and make yourself a better person. Good luck and I am praying for you.
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Honestly, I gave my ex a book on bipolar disorder that was highly recommended. I sent it to her in the mail and it has helped her immensely. I guess it has to do with how you approach it. They may take offense to it right away, but I figured if I sent it to her, she'd either put it down angrily and come back to it, or throw it away. Curiousity sometimes get the best of us though. She ended up reading it cover to cover, gave it to me to read and now we're both the better for the experience.
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