After 17 yrs, my wife is now separated from me and having an affair with another man. Since she left me, I have done everything I know to get her back, although she seems to be doing everything she can to push me away. For example: I took some food over to her place, and she knew I was comming. When i got there, she had i guys button down shirt on. Well, Odvionsly i knew whos it was and i was so pissed off. Another time she came over to the house and told me that she has fallen in love with him, and when he leaves his wife and 3 kids that they are talking about moveing in together. If that wasnt enough, in the middle of the conversation, he called and she told him she loved him right in front of me. She has never been this uncompasionate since we have been together. I believe that she has a wall up to anything i say. Im starting to realize that is may just be over for good, but i am having a hard time filing for divorce. In some wierd way, I still think I want her back. I love her so much, but i hate her on the other hand. Do you think I should divorce her or give it a litte more time to see if she opens her eyes and realizes that she has screwed up
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