He sounds like my boyfriend. Everyday he hurts me in some way. Today he called and talked to his exgirlfriend and invited her to the club he works at this Friday night. I was soooo upset and cryed so hard I threw up. He hurt me so much I became physically ill. He doesn't work and is living off me. But I am letting him use me. I bought him a car and paid for some of his schooling. He owes me thousands of dollars and I will probably never see a penny. I let him live with me for free. I am an idiot right. I am just not strong enough to get rid of him. Maybe you and I should be strong together and we'll get rid of them both!!!!

First, people are always going to let you down, No one is perfect. The question you need to ask yourself is, if you do get married, is that something that you are willing to put up with for the rest of your life. If not, then I suggest that you do end it before you get married, then it is harder to get out of something that makes you so unhappy. But why get into something that makes you so unhappy to begin with? Maybe if you take a break, he will realize what he is losing or maybe you will realized that there is something better for you. I hope you the best.

Run for the hills!!! Sorry to say but I'm betting he is cheating on you. My XBF always did the same thing to me. He always forgot we had plans, or would show up really late and not want to go out after I was all dressed up to go, he tried to move into my house, have me buy him a car(I was too smart to fall for that). He never seemed to care about what was important to me. Then I busted him cheating on me with 2 OW. He woud tell me he was sleeping all night too he just forgot to mention it was at another womens house.

Basically, I taught him to treat me with such disrespect bc I never stood up for myself. I would let him get away with the flimsy excuses or get together late at night after he had taken one of the OW out for the evening. After 2yrs of this, I finally told him I was sick of his abuse. I realized I did not want to spend my life with someone who did not care about me enough to remeber my birthday, holidays, or what would make me happy.

It took almost a year before I could get this man to stop bothering me. I've told him a million times to leave me alone but he would always try to get me back with more lies and BS. Finally, I said some really nasty things to him...anything I could think of to piss him off. It seems to have worked. He has not tried to contact me for about 1 month and I've realized in that time that his lies, cheating and indifference were a form of abuse. I just did not want to put up with it anymore and I now am a much happier person.

Really think about what you want for yourself. Do you want to put up with this kind of life for a long time? Or, is it better to cut your losses now and find someone who will treat you right?

Always judge a person by his action's. Warning flag going up here. Never by ther words.

DUMP HIM, NOW.

Life lesson, cover your ears. Listen to nothing in a romantic relationship. Watch what they do. Actions speak louder than words.

There's a little word called "RESPECT" and he has not one ounce of it for you.

Kick him to the curb right now. Get this looser out of your life so you can open yourself up to someone who will truly love and cherish you as you so deserve to be loved.

As long as you allow him to treat you this way, he will continue. With each day that passes, you are teaching him it's OK to treat women with such lack of respect and consideration. Stop the madness NOW, please???

You can't control what he says or does, but you can sure control your actions, take back your power.

You are worth so much more!