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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we both proclaimed our love for one another but the biggest problem thats going on is that he 90%of time disappoints me. Most recently was Sweeties Day, we had made plans prior to the day to spend the day together...then on Sweeties day I called and called him no answer then he calls that night leaving a message that he was sleep all day...of course i dont believe this and then he did not even wish me a happy sweeties day...
Its not just this sweeties day incident but he did this on my birthday and christmas...
what should i do this man says he loves me and that he wants to marry me but he doesnt keep his word he makes plenty promises and almost never follows through...
what to do?
Its not just this sweeties day incident but he did this on my birthday and christmas...
what should i do this man says he loves me and that he wants to marry me but he doesnt keep his word he makes plenty promises and almost never follows through...
what to do?
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Really think about what you want for yourself. Do you want to put up with this kind of life for a long time? Or, is it better to cut your losses now and find someone who will treat you right?
Life lesson, cover your ears. Listen to nothing in a romantic relationship. Watch what they do. Actions speak louder than words.
Kick him to the curb right now. Get this looser out of your life so you can open yourself up to someone who will truly love and cherish you as you so deserve to be loved.
As long as you allow him to treat you this way, he will continue. With each day that passes, you are teaching him it's OK to treat women with such lack of respect and consideration. Stop the madness NOW, please???
You can't control what he says or does, but you can sure control your actions, take back your power.
You are worth so much more!