Well, he didnt wait till Sunday. I found out all the nice things hes been doing has been to get me back. He begged on his knees for me to let him come home and I said NO. I dont feel safe around him or trust him especially with his current behavior of love/hate. Toward the beginning of the conversation when he asked me to give up my male friend..and I said NO, its not him its the point that you want me give up a friend to make you happy..he took his cell phone, whipped it to the floor and it shattered. I of course started crying. Minutes later he told me how much he loved me and would never hurt me. That he is swearing on the kids that he will change and I will be happy. I stood my ground and said NO. He then proceeded to tell me that he officially hates me. Never to call to say Im worried about him or love him. He never wants to hear my voice again. He will only call to speak with the kids and that I should take him to court for child support. I cant believe this is happening. I guess a friendship can never happen when getting a divorce. After 10 years clearly my happiness is not a priority. Its only words. Im numb. Did I do the right thing? Or his he right...Am I worthless for not making it work for the kids? Please help.
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