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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My wife and I are, unfortunately, separated. She is not sure if she wants to be with me anymore and I am trying to give her the time to figure it out. I need to speak with her about the holidays and what we should do. We have two girls together, so we need to make a plan. I am unsure if calling her is the right move, for I am trying everything in my power to not push her away, but we do still need to speak. If I call her, will she feel pressured? Annoyed? I am in the Army and, therefore, further away, so I cant just stop by. I want to do the right thing, but what is the right thing? Any ideas?
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Can you can use the distance to your advantage since you will both have time to communicate via email?
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