My wife has been having an emotional affair with a co-worker and recently she said she cheated on me. Now she wants a divorce. I told her that I would go to therapy to try and get to the root of my problems. I wanted to do couples therapy but she said it was too late. She is seeing this guy and it hurts. She said she does not want to be with me anymore. I think that she is in lust and infatuated with this new guy. I told her that I want to work on our marriage but she said it is too late. I am heartbroken, angry that we didn't do something sooner and just plain sad. I keep trying to get her to stay with me and our son but she will have none of it. It was a great 9 years and now it's over and I cannot wrap my mind around it. She is not the person I married and it seems like she changed overnight. It is almost like when she cheated she separated emotionally from me. I was willing to forgive her and work on this. We had so many good times together that outweighed the bad times. Marriages have bumps and you have to deal with those bumps one at a time and not check out. I love her dearly and to be replaced hurts. I don't know what she was thinking and the majority of family and friends thinks she doesn't know what she is doing. I have tried everything to save our family but she will have none of it. She did agree to go to therapy for her. I am in therapy too. This is a loss that will take a while to get over. I just do not know what to do. We still live together and I really miss her. This hurts so bad. I just want her back
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