This is the second time my wife left in six months . First time got her own apt . Lost it , went to jail , lost her job and almost everything else . She came back homeless . I told her she has to get sober as well , get a job and work on our marriage . So she was doing great until she started using again , got her old feelings back and split while I was at work . Took her clothes only . We were living at my friends house and the rest is in storage . She supposedly moved in with our old neighbor (male) alcoholic , pot smoker . I was crushed . Seems like she has a problem to . So she called but I am not talking to her or returning her calls . It has been 2 weeks . She wants her stuff . She should of gotten everything when she snuck out . I just want her to realize what she is doing , moving in with another man 1, giving up sobriety after she asked me to quit drinking , and lying again . I have never not talked to her this long in 8 years . I am very upset after I helped her get on her feet she splits and lies and moves in with another man . I am not ready to deal with abandonment of marriage and adultery . Am I wrong not to take her calls? Or let her get her things which are not even personal items . All of our stuff is still in boxes and never gone through together from the last move . She has abandoned the whole family , church and her husband . Not even called her mom . She is 35 yrs old and I am 40 . I have never her seen her act this way in 8 years . I dont know what to do sometimes . It is hard not to talk to her , I only can pray for her . Any advice or has someone gone thru this , is she seeing if the grass is greener story . She has called twice now .
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