My wife of almost 25 yrs, had an affairs going on two years and I knew nothing about it, she lied to me, our daughters, our friends her friends, when she got enough support behind her she told me she didn't love me for a long time and she wanted a divorce, later that night i told her I didn't want a divorce that we could work on ti and go to counseling, she said no, I ask if she had somebody else and after 20 minutes she admitted it, and left the next morning, after i told the truth to our daughters and she told them that if she had to choose between them and this guy and her happiness she would pick the guy everytime, its been a roller coaster of kindness ad arguments between us, she lies about living with him, and lies about why she can't see the kids when she is suppose to, and she is always, going to bars and dancing with this guy, who, recently finalized his 2nd divorce and broke up with another woman he was with for 2 years because he was cheating on her with my wife, I can 't take her back because even if she wanted to come back, I couldn't trust her or trust having sex with her because she told me she doesn't practice safe sex of any type with him, so why do I still love her and cry daily thinking of her, I've already had 1 break down because of this and I feel that I am slowly heading for a total breakdown in my life, why does this happen,
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