I was just wondering how other people out there handle sharing children with sn ex when they have left you for another woman or man ( I was left for OW). My ex and I share every other week custody of our three year old son. The woman he left me for lives out of state. He's never truthful to me about his plans with our son or he's very vague with me when he needs my permission. Ex. my ex and his girlfriend are going to Disney with my son and two of her daughters. Why the third isn't going? I don't know. And, Yes, that bothers me. When he told me he was taking a trip he didn't tell me where or with who. I had to press him for the information. So, I was wondering is this normal? And how do you deal with the fact that another person is around your child. Yes, the other parent knows them and is there taking care of them but, I don't know her from Adam. I've never seen her. All I know is her first name and that she is the mother of three children, she's a pharmaceutical rep and she lives somewhere in Indiana. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. My son is leaving next week and I'm trying to deal with this.
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