
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I have read several journals, where people are still having sex w/the stbx - I was just wondering what that was like (not in detail) but emotionally- don't get me wrong, I miss the sex, the closeness, that I had for 23 years, but I can't imagine going that far knowing he has been such an ass to me. I wouldn't think it would do anyone any good - am I wrong? Its not going to happen but I was curious - is this a way people think they will get there ex back or is it just a comfort zone - I think I could understand it being a comfort zone - because at this point, I want another relationship but I can not imagine being that close to have another relationship right now - but who knows what tomorrow brings :)
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It is cheaper than a purchase.
It is easier than a pick up.
It requires not as much dishonesty.
It serves a need.
Quick, convenient, somewhat satisfying.
A great opportunity for a terrific joke - after the roll off, and as heads lie on the pillow, one of you can say "My husband/wife doesn't understand me."
If it brings pleasure, or great joy or increased happiness, is it so bad?
Only you can know.
At least friends with benefits is more honest and it can also mess with your head but it can give you pleasure while you work through your own shit.. and no one needs to know except the two of you....