Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Any suggestions? I am in Illinois - I should have a tax advisor....I'll take any suggestions though. I meet with atty early December.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Alimony is Usually taxed to the receiver (unless the payer accepts responsibility)
Your attorney will have ideas about what you will be entitled to. IF something does not feel right, make them explain it to you. IF it Still doesn't feel right, ask for time to Think.
Make Sure that you can live with what you are asking for...you might just get it. Just because you want his hide and blood right now doesn't mean that you will be Proud of this in 10 years time...or vice versa.
I ended up arguing with our mediator at every meeting. He thought I needed more. I think that I will be lucky to collect what stbx offered. STBX doesn't think that he will live Long enough to pay it all...NO ONE is Happy-so, it is a Normal Divorce.
Sorry, don't mean to be flip, just wanted you to smile.
Don't get screwed, but also don't be cruel. It is such a fine line.
Do you know what your living expenses currently are, and what they will be if you have to move from your current home? Take that as your starting point. You HAVE to be able to continue to survive.
You need your Health Care, your Car Insurance...All of the things that you currently have.