Ok yes my wife left me and started a whole new life with a new guy, she was seeing him three months before she left, and now until she gets her own place whe is living with him. Well the other day I let her have the kids over night with her since she missed them so much and when they got home I heard some things that I was not happy with. The biggest thing that bothered me was when my kids pointed out the fact that mom was in the bed with another guy, we had agreed that for now until things got further along that if she had the kids that she would sleep with them and not be with him. It is really easy for her to move on. So my question is how do you set up boundries with a reasonable expectation of them being followed when the X has the kids?
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