I\'ve been seeing someone long distance for over 9 months. Over that time period, we talked on the phone 3 or more times EVERY day, texted when we couldn\'t talk, visited when possible, exchanged I love you\'s, etc. And about 2 weeks ago, this Christian man who had assured me that \"we\'ll figure something out, baby. Don\'t stress\" in regards to the distance and missing each other so much....just QUIT on me. No fight, nothing wrong just one day...off the map. The only thing I\'ve heard is \"I\'m working. I\'ll call you tomorrow\". Which, of course never happened. I\'ve deleted him from my email and phone to avoid the temptation to contact him anymore. I did text and let him know that it must have all been a lie from him, a big game to him. That I must never have meant anything to him otherwise he\'d never be able to just disappear w/o an explanation. I told him that I hope he find happiness in his work (since that\'s all he does) and that I won\'t bother him again. MY QUESTION: How can someone treat someone else this way? SERIOUSLY! Even if it was a friend that I didn\'t really care for, I\'d at least EXPLAIN why I wasn\'t contacting them anymore!!!! I think the tears are over...I think. But the shock of abandonment is harsh and feels like there\'s been a death. No, the tears aren\'t all gone...my eyes are swelling now. What happened?...and why does he think it\'s okay to end it like this? How does he sleep at night???
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