My husband and I seperated on 01/05/09 only to yesterday find out he moved out of our apt. the same day and mived in 4 houses away with a very much younger female - she is maybe 25 - we are nearing 40 ---------Monday 02/03 he asked me if I could talk about us getting back together, but I was not ready to talk - that was even beforeI knew about him living with her ......I ran into her yesterday and she told me he tells her he loves her and wants to be with her ........I am so hurt, I don;t know which way to turn - not only do I have to come home everyday yo the apt we shared but now knowing he is licing 4 doors down with her ...he has also been bringing her to places we hang out where all of our friends are there and I feel so embarrassed .........I can't get past the hurt to get mad to begin to heal - I feel like I am crumbeling and loosing my mind --------I just want to get over this hurt feeling ........i'd give anything in thr world to get past this stage ----------signed broken hearted
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