Does anyone have experience with being separated, but still remaining together in the family home? In my case the separation was at her request.... tho i shared her reasoning in so far as we both need to work on ourselves... to get to the point where we like ourselves before there's any hope of liking each other enough for our relationship to have a future. My biggest challenge is in letting go of my insecurities so i can stop dwelling on what she is getting up to when she goes out.... her "work" on herself primarily consists of having fun... being with friends... flirting... getting laid. My focus for myself is more on getting my health in shape, and breaking my pattern of always putting myself last. How can i prevent myself from feeling like i'm only a paycheque to her while she gets her ducks in a row, and finds my replacement?
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