On valentines day when I caught him cheating and went to her house to confront him she opened the door in a silk robe, hair mussed, showing the obvious signs that she had been in bed with my husbnd. The man who had kissed me the night before and told me that he loved me and what a good valentines day we would have. Strangely the first thought i had was "damn, shes prettier than me". How vain lol. But you know in the last two weeks I have realized that him cheating had very little to do with me and alot to do with him being untrustworthy. I was good enough for 13 years and still am. He is the one who is flawed. I am the same person I was when we married. Ive actually gotten better with age. So my self esteem will not suffer any longer. I am good person and will be great for someone else someday.
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