Since the day my husband asked for the divorce I have felt like I have failed. I will be moving soon and that scares me because I am filled with alot of self doubt. My sister has been great with kind words of incouragment but this doubt is really strong. I now double check everything I do before I do it. It has been a month now since he moved on but I was a very self efficient, independent woman before he came along. Now I feel like that person no longer exists. I know time will heal the pain and I will go on, but how do I find me again? I have been so comfortable in this married environment that starting over seems unreal. I guess part of it comes from the fact that I feel rushed to get my marriage over and start new in a new inviroment. There is pressure from him, his family, as well as my own, but I still feel dazed and confused by his decision for divorce. Any advise right now would be awesome. Thanks
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