Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I want to be back where I use to be before divorce. I was happy to be alone, or in the company of friends. I didn't feel the need to have someone in my life, or at least dependent on them. We have had several breakups, but this one has bee the hardest by far. I guess just knowing that she has someone else did it. No I don't have anyone, I guess I am just to afraid of being hurt again. I know this will pass, I just wish it didn't fill my thoughts all the time.
TSand
My friend, I echo exactly what you have said. When no one calls me on the cell phone I feel lonely. A saturday fills me with dread. TV makes me sad. Everything reminds me of how hurt and broken I feel. The only thing that helps is the comfort of others like me, you!
ladyleo
I have gotten to the point where when I do go out its usually with my married friends.My real test will be the company XMas dinner at applebees where most likely everyone will have a partner with them but me. I think its a matter of being happy with yourself and not needing someone by yourside constantly to fill a empty space It will take time to adjust to your singleness.You will date again when your ready. Reach out to some old buds.
deleted_user
starting a new while having still fresh memories of the old relationship will only pick up repeat behaviors that were learned from the past relationship. running to another doesn't solve problems, only masks them temporarily. I am happy to be by myself while at times, it is very lonely. however, being alone is not the same as being single. Take the necessary time to heal yourself prior to starting anew.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
