Today is my first appointment with the lawyer to talk about filing for divorce. Its been a long time coming and I'm nervous as hell. I have everything as organized as possible, but I'm still scared. So much of what I do going forward depends on what my legal rights are...and as much research as I've done, I still feel like I'm on unsteady ground. I am hoping my meeting today will make me feel empowered, because right now I just feel scared shi*less. AND in addition to that I'm trying to find a way to move out sooner than expected. Originally I was going to share the marital home with my husband until I finish college next summer and then file and move out. But our living situation has become so unbearable, I need to get out ASAP. So...the wheels are turning on that too. I just feel SO overwhelmed!! Just looking for support I guess from others who have jumped off this DIvorce Cliff and found their wings.
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