I have been holding to the no contact rule and haven't talked to my stbx in just about a week. We have a 4 month old son. He hasn't even contacted at all to check on our son or see if there is anything that he needs. He hasn't seen our son in over a week. It hurts and upsets me. I was trying to wait on him to open a line of communication to talk on him but he isn't doing it himself. Should I contact him and tell him that I am not so mad that he can't be there for our son or should I leave it at no contact until he decides to ask? I know if I contact him to just talk business, but should I see why he hasn't checked on him or wait him out?
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