
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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i am experiencing some fear as to what is gonna come to be from this divorce. stbx is still living here and thats not helping cause i feel like i cannot move on at all. i am afraid cause i dont know whare i'll end up living with the kids and how they'll adjust. im afaid that i wont make it on my own. im afraid i'll forever BE alone. anyone else whose divorce isnt final and are scared. I go to mediation tomorrow with family relations and this is our 2nd meeting with them. if we dont come to an agreement on custody it goe s to court. im really uncomfortable with that as welll. thoughts and prayers are needed.
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Take a moment to just be, breathe. Take it one day at a time-you can do this!
You are in a tough place right now,but hang onto the fact that it will get better. Surround yourself with those who will support you and let the good people here at DS give you the advice, support and strength you will need.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I sure hope your meeting goes well tomorrow with mediation. Remember it is about the kids! (hope he remembers too)
Then I took him to court and he had to pay me 300/week in child support and alimony. I soon dropped the alimony because I was doing ok on my own. I now graduated in 3 years and have a career making more money than him.
He had to eat his words, "I guess you will have to quit school and get a job."
Needless to say if you have the will to fight, you will make it. You have to WANT to make it. I am here for you, add me as a friend.
I know this is a hard situation, one that I wouldn't wish on anyone. Take it one day at a time. You would be suprised what you can do when you just put your mind to it.
Would it be possible for you to concentrate on your desired positive outcomes and immediately dismiss from your mind any potential results that you do not favor? Can you replace, in your mind, whenever they appear, the negative results with the positive results that you wish? Can you imagine a new world for you?