I am hanging onto my unhappy marriage for fear of having to share my 16 month old son 50/50. I know that is what my husband will want and go for (1 week/1 week for example) and I can't bear it. I want him to live with me as his primary residence and have time with his father. I have been his primary caregiver and sending him between homes is unstable for a child in my opinion. My husband can be nasty and I fear he will fight hard for this potentially, though he says he doesn't want to spend so much money in court. I'm wondering does this arrangement happen a lot in Canada or elsewhere? Also, is sharing a child to any degree as unbearable as it seems it would be? I don't know whether to try again on this marriage or get out now while my child is so young.
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