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The first time around I was concerned.
Now, it just ticks me off. He's just using those lines to get a rise out of me. He wants me to feel bad for HIM!?
If he were in bad shape, his therapist would see it and help him.
Not my job anymore.
I cant imagine someone doing that but he killed himself.
I dont know what advice to give you.
This guy seemed like he was dealing with it. He was a social worker and helped many in this situation. It took everyone by suprize. He did not threaten suicide to anyone as far as I know.
If there were something in his demeanor that truly concerned you about his well being -- just as you might be concerned about a neighbor's well being if they were in obvious jeopardy -- you could always call the local police and express your fears to them, and the reasons why you think it is serious. Then you have discharged your duty as a caring human being. The rest is with whatever you think of as a higher power.
He isn't your responsibility anymore. Notify a friend or family member and THEY can address it with him!
Oooooo, did I really say that out loud?
Per the doctors: This is their choice, to say it and , if they follow thur to DO it. WE are not in charge of this in ANY way. You get to a point, I know I did, when you let go enough to realize that you can't control this, that he must seek help or if he is using it to control your feeling, get over doing this to you. when my stbx kept saying it, I firmly told him I was call 911 - sometimes that is all we can do. letting go hurts, but in time it gets better. I know it is for me. sure will pray for you that he stops doing this. take care, ok?