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I'm so sick with anxiety right now I could just throw up. I'll be seeing/talking to my H for the first time tonight at counseling in 6 weeks.
About middle to late summer it seemed like things were going to be okay. We were going to counseling, he told me he loved me and never stopped loving me, told me we should try to have children over the winter.
Then 6 weeks ago today at counseling he told me it "just wasn't in his heart" to make our marriage work. Our counselor asked if we wanted to set up another appointment and he said yes. So she suggested we didn't see or talk to each other until then- which is now.
I'm being realistic about what he'll say tonight. I don't think he's going to change his mind again. I'm expecting the worst. But I guess I must still be holding out with a small bit of hope.
Our appointment is at 8:00pm tonight and I don't know how I'm going to get through the day. I don't know how to act tonight. I've finally taken off my rings so this will be the first time he'll see me without them on. Do I give him a hug when I see him? Do I bring his mail? Does it even matter what I wear?
If he still says he wants out do I just say okay? Do I tell him I still love him and still want to try to work it out?
Someone please help me. I need prayers and strength. I wish one of you could come with me.
About middle to late summer it seemed like things were going to be okay. We were going to counseling, he told me he loved me and never stopped loving me, told me we should try to have children over the winter.
Then 6 weeks ago today at counseling he told me it "just wasn't in his heart" to make our marriage work. Our counselor asked if we wanted to set up another appointment and he said yes. So she suggested we didn't see or talk to each other until then- which is now.
I'm being realistic about what he'll say tonight. I don't think he's going to change his mind again. I'm expecting the worst. But I guess I must still be holding out with a small bit of hope.
Our appointment is at 8:00pm tonight and I don't know how I'm going to get through the day. I don't know how to act tonight. I've finally taken off my rings so this will be the first time he'll see me without them on. Do I give him a hug when I see him? Do I bring his mail? Does it even matter what I wear?
If he still says he wants out do I just say okay? Do I tell him I still love him and still want to try to work it out?
Someone please help me. I need prayers and strength. I wish one of you could come with me.
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you will be in my thoughts and prayers. stay strong and keep the faith.
deleted_user
Keep yourself as busy as you can today. No need to hug him, even though you may want to. Go ahead and bring his mail...its a good opportunity to give it to him. Just wear something that makes you feel good and gives you a little confidence boost. If you still love him and want to try to work it out, you need to tell him that. Just be prepared for his reply, he may not want the same. I think if you don't tell him you will always wonder "What if?" I am praying for you. Know that you are strong and you will make it through this no matter how it ends up.
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I agree you need to keep you head up high and even if it is kill you on the inside don't let him know that he's making you feel that way. Not saying that you have to pretend on everything but let him speak first and see if he really wants to fix things or just playing with you. I will say a prayer for you and good luck.
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