I feel for you, What advice has your attorney given you?

Stay focused and dont get sidetracked.

Hopefully your complaint has real merit; otherwise you will look foolish and waste money.

I am sorry I have no advise, I so wish I did.
Just remember - YOU ARE STRONG!!!
Maybe listen to the song "Barracuda" by Heart on the way and know that YOU are the Barracuda! Run the song in your mind when the laywer is attacking you and know you can just eat him up - he's a guppy!

This may sound like a stupid question.. but.. Do you have to be there?

I mean.. I am Canadian.. so forgive me.. but.. Can you lawyer handle this in court without you?

Bottomline, if you are too scared you should not be there, this is not a healthy situation. Fear and intimidation is not going to be a good place for you to be tommorow.

Ask you lawyer if you need to be there. Tell them your fear.

If possible, see if you can do this one on one with your lawyer and the judge or clerk.

Be well.. and know that we are here supporting you. (((HUGS)))

You have to gather evidence on this BCWDA-MCP.

Wow - God is watching out for fools today! I just got a call from my attorney and she said my stbx's attorney "can't be there" tomorrow. (laughing up my sleeve) Stbx's attorney tried to get my atty to agree to a no contact order instead and she told him she would advise against it. Then the stbx's attorney said the protection order would hurt stbx's career - my atty told him that it was her professional opinion that that was not true for two reasons. Even if he were career enlisted it would only prevent him from carrying a firearm (not necessary for a supply guy like my stbx) and because he wasn't career enlisted. My atty explained to his atty that my stbx is only an activated reservist and his assignment expires in April and he can retire as a reservist before then, so no problem - LMBO!!!! His atty said they would ask for a continuance, but both atty's know that they are not likely to get it....

I just want all the men in this community that if I say man hating things that are offensive that I apologize. Please take my comments in context. I have finally recovered to the point that I am angry now - but only with myself and my stbx. It really is a good thing because I need it to see me through, but also because it means I am healing. It is not such a good thing if I come across as a broom riding man hater - it is only a phase....

Maybe your stbx and his atty are trying to bully you. Stand your ground and act brave no matter how you feel inside.

Great news. I believe that God will take care of us. Just stay the course. You know what is right and in your best intrest. Don't let fear intimidate you.

God is not watching out for fools today, He was watching out for His child today and He showed her how very real and in contol He is. i'm so very happy for you. i believe that when things are done for the right reasons we triumph. it's the mean and vindictive people who lose, perhaps not right away all the time, but it will bite them in the azz. you deserved this blessing. i wish for you lots more blessings.

Honey as you know I'm livingthe same horror right now The truth will come through have faith