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deleted_user
deleted_user
A previous post was "Who Am I". I have been raging that I just want to move forward, and when I answered that poster, yesterday, I still wanted to move Forward.

Now I am scared spitless. STBX wants me to fly out tomorrow and he will post the money to my account from here.

I can't say that I have ever felt quite so lost in my entire life. I don't know what to tell him.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
Tell him it is that time of the month and you have cramps.. and you are in major PMS mode and could have a stroke if you are put under any more pressure.

see what he says to that!

or not.. just turn off the phone... he can wait a few days.
deleted_user
deleted_user
do you trust him to do that?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Won't work-no plumbing...

Yes, I trust him to do the transfer.

I am not sure that I trust me not to just walk into the ocean.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
okay.. define.. Leave Town.

How far?.. city limits?..county limits?.. state?... what is the big deal here?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dumb reply. I am tired. I am scared.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Cross Country. I am just to damned tired to even think straight anymore, and he is here...I just want everything to be done. I am too tired to have to Do It. I don't have the backbone to push this through.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can do it! Why does he want you to fly out? Why can't you just say "Sure - send me the money!" and then just not go?
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