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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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deleted_user 12/02/2007

I hate these post. I have decided to leave DS.I want to thank all my friends here.It has been a wonderful experience but after the recent fallout concerning the discipline of my son..i feel i need to step away.

I love and appreciate all of you.Even though we may not have always gotten along or saw eye to eye on some things..i have always respected the varying thoughts and opinions.

DS has been a life saver for me and i will always be grateful for the time i spent here.I never meant to cause any problems but i feel i have.This is suppose to be about support and it seems lately i have caused only dissention.I do not want to be the cause of turmoil.

I am actively pursuing the help i need in all aspects of my life.I am continuing to evolve even at this point. I still have a path to follow and i look forward to where it will lead.

I wish you all well.I know this time is hard for each of us.I want to encourage you all to be strong.I know sometimes it seems as though we will never be able to recover from the pain and hurt.From the lies and the distrust.From the loss of that someone special.Time is all we have and probably the only way we will ever truly heal.So may her response be quick and time be of the essence for each of you.

BE BOLD BE BEAUTIFUL BE BLESSED

_Savery1

deleted_user 12/02/2007

i'm so upset to see and read this, you did not cause the problem, you were unjustly attacked and verbally abused. you did not cause the turmoil. and if you think there are areas on your life that need work, then work on them and make yourself a better life. i'm going to repeat it one more time. YOU DID NOT CAUSE THE DISSENTION AND TURMOIL. AND YOU ARE NOT IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM A CHILD ABUSER. i hope you'll reconsider, but if you don't, know that you will be missed.

deleted_user 12/02/2007

ditto what chrurop said -- I, too, am very saddened to read this post -- if you go, you will be missed!

deleted_user 12/02/2007

So the terroists win. Fuck that.

deleted_user 12/02/2007

So the terroists win. Fuck that.
Sorry I copied,,, cause I could not say it any better!

deleted_user 12/02/2007

I wish you would reconsider. We need you here too. Don't let the recent stuff run you off.

CanadianRose 12/02/2007

This is Wrong!

and it is about time we stand up and stop this crap.

Savery, you have not done anything wrong.

I am happy that you feel that you have evolved.. and you know that you do not need this crap in your life right now.

Please at least lurk about and know that you are a welcomed part of this community.

All the very best. ((HUGS))

deleted_user 12/02/2007

Hey little bro, this makes me so sad. You know I have felt such a connection to you and we have helped each other through so many things. I will miss you, I am sorry for all that has happened. I love you. Lynette

GeocacherNY 12/02/2007

I thought it was safe to get back in the water

deleted_user 12/02/2007

What happened to freedom of speach? I need all the advise I can get, good, bad or indifferent..

deleted_user 12/02/2007

Please try to stay, I have just gotton to know you and would like the time to get to konw you even better. You are wanted here by so many. I understand why you might feel this way, but time has shown the wonderful colors of alot of people here...you are wanted. So stay

deleted_user 12/02/2007

BUMP

deleted_user 12/02/2007

Leaving solves nothing.

I don't even know you, but I can say that your loss to this site will be a tragedy.

We all have different opinions, and the course the post you are referring to went way off track.

deleted_user 12/02/2007

Savery1, I think you should reconsider. It is your decision, but we will have lost someone we like, want his opinion and take his words into consideration as another point of view.

deleted_user 12/02/2007

It is safe Larry,, you don't have to hide,, no one is coming after you! LOL

deleted_user 12/02/2007

Gosh, I wish I would have chimed in sooner. My kid hijacked my laptop (my space)..Savery, since when does anyone apologize for being honest, admitting when they might be wrong, accepting advice and promising to do better??!! I think you are a caring and loving dad, I think you have a lot to contribute to your family and to this site and I, for one, will be very disappointed if you leave. :-( Not only will I not have anyone to have a spirited (and honorable) debate, but I wasted my whole day and some of my night watching your back and trying to get the WHACK to apologize. IMO YOU are not the one who needs to apologize. Someone else does, but that would require a conscience....
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